Blog and opinion
5 February 2019 • Phyllis Fercho
Sweat is dripping down my back as I struggle to push and pull my two suitcases and my backpack through the fifth coach of my train to Frankfurt. “I’m sorry” I say with an apologetic smile as I bump into the third handbag of a stranger. In the sixth coach, I finally find space for my gigantic suitcase and lift the 30kg monster onto the rack, relieved, that it doesn’t burst because it’s jam-packed. I flop onto an empty seat and can’t but chuckle which causes the man sitting opposite me to give me a confused look. “Guten Abend” (GER: good evening), I say, as I wiggle my arms out of my puffy winter coat.
This is so typically me! A new chapter in my life, another move from one city to the next, another day of me carrying my own weight in luggage through the world’s history. And of course, everything is always tightly timed, so I can make the most of every day without losing any time with my loved ones. But, at a cost of a constant slight adrenaline rush the day before something new starts. Either way, it’s too late now to regret making things a little more complicated than necessary. Tomorrow is the big day! Tomorrow, I’ll start my internship at a big, international company. Tomorrow, I’ll be starting a new chapter not only career-wise, but also in terms of education as my last semester of ICM includes me writing my bachelor thesis and graduating this summer. Finally!
I feel like a little kid on the night before my first day of school. Anxiously but also excitedly awaiting the new. New challenges, and with that, new opportunities to grow and learn which is my favourite part about life.
Life is good. Actually, it’s better than good! Life, right now, is rather excellent!
Especially after a crazy 2018. The last year has taught me so much about other people, different cultures and, most importantly, myself. It started with my adventurous semester abroad in Japan. Continued with my return to the Netherlands where I struggled so much to readapt to life in The Hague. The relief when I got used to the loud and colourful life of my beloved Dutchies again. And, finally, the frustration of getting knocked right back down by reality because countless assignments, failing internship applications and personal issues required so much attention, time and energy.
But all the hard work I’ve been putting into building the life I want is now paying off. I’ve sorted out the important areas of my life and feel more like myself than I have in the past three years. And let me tell you: this is the best feeling you could possibly have! No monster suitcases or little scared voices speaking about all the things that might go wrong at my internship can hold me back from walking down the path I chose. Nothing can hold me back because even if I make mistakes (which I will at least a million times), I know that I’m still going in the right direction. So I’m starting over-again. But I couldn’t feel better about it.
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Twenty one year old student Phyllis Fercho from Germany is crazy in love with life and all the great things it has to offer. Since graduated from secondary school she lived and worked in England and Italy. Nowadays she is a student International Communication Management. This month she started her internship at Lufthansa.